Poll: Help me name an important event

For years I’ve struggled with Father’s Day. It was a reminder of a difficult relationship and a tough problem that I couldn’t resolve. In writing The Ghost of My Father I’ve heard from many people who have similar feelings when the day arrives in June. 30% of American children grow up without knowing their fathers, and 27% of adults are estranged from their dads.

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The plan: a live online event before Fathers day for people to connect, get support, advice and stories that help. It will include a simple website with resources, book reviews and more. It’d be open to anyone in any situation that makes them feel sad during Father’s day.

Help I need:

  • I’m looking for suggestions for names for the day. Vote below please?
  • Volunteers to help organize the event and the website. Leave a comment or email me if you’re interested. 

 

6 Responses to “Poll: Help me name an important event”

  1. Luther Blissett

    Dada daddy day?

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  2. Nancy

    Of all of those I like ChosenFamily Day. The others are negatives. Thoughts that came to mind are SelfParent, Re-Parent, etc. Otherwise I would go with semi-humorous like MyCrapDad Day, CrappyDad Day, etc.
    FWIW I know they are in our face, but these days have become overblown, which in my opinion increases the crap feeling for those who had awful dad experiences.

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  3. Dimitri

    Every year it comes back this feeling, and so, last year, I wrote a Blues for those among us who share the Father’s blues …

    Father’s Day Blues

    A time to celebrate and remember fathers … For many, Father’s Day is a joyous occasion of course, but for many others it is an all together different occasion … And when the day comes around we feel a special kind of blues, one you could call the Father’s Day Blues.

    For me the day has taken different forms over the years … a day I celebrated, a day I mocked, a day I cursed, a day I pulled daggers out of my body, a day I forgot existed, a day I practiced indifference, a day I made peace with …

    I know for having lived long enough, and paid attention to people’s hearts and souls, that I’m hardly alone to feel the Father’s Day Blues, which of course, is not a day’s blues but a blues for many seasons, and, sometimes, a blues for life …

    And so, despite ourselves, unwillingly, whether we even acknowledge it or not, on this day many of us feel the Father’s Day Blues …
    of absent fathers
    of workaholic fathers
    of mean and violent fathers
    of fathers who just didn’t know any better
    of fathers we never had
    of alcoholic and addicted fathers
    of dead-beats and womanizers
    of narcissistic and dictatorial fathers
    of broken and depressed fathers
    of fathers who never got over being fatherless …

    And on and on it goes …
    To each his own tune,
    To each his own story,
    To each his own voice,
    Everyone different, and yet
    Everyone, together,
    reluctantly singing
    that old universal song:
    The Father’s Day Blues.

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  4. Suraj

    Its quite shocking that 30% of children are growing without father and that number is increasing, the technology is increasing and don’t know why its impacting on the relationship.

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