The 5 Worst Fathers Of All Time

In working on my book, The Ghost of My Father I’ve read many books about fathers, both good and bad and some names come up often in the bad category. These stories rarely explain what life was like with them on a daily basis, but for the actions they’re known for alone they stand out in history.  Here are the 5 worst I found:

  1. Emperor Constantine.  Reigned over the Roman empire around 300 A.D. He led the way for the endorsement of Christianity, as a supporter of the Edict of Milan. Where he got into trouble, as many Roman emperors did, was how he handled his family. He had his son, and likely heir, Crispus murdered. And of course, he also had Crispus’ mother Fausta murdered just two years later. The history of Rome and many empires is filled with fratricide, filicide (killing your child), patricide and more.
  2. Peter The Great. Curiously similar to Constantine, Peter had his son Alexei executed. To be fair Alexei grew up with an allegiance to his mother, who despised Peter. Alexei put himself into exile, which generally pissed Peter off and he returned only with assurances that he wouldn’t be tortured or killed. Those assurances were ignored and Alexei was tortured to death.
  3. Bible grab bag: Lot, Jephthah, Noah. There is plenty of bad fathering described in the bible (including perhaps by God himself), and although I believe the bible is best understood as fiction the importance of the book earns these fathers an entry. Between Lot’s incest with his daughters (and allowance of their raping), Jephthah killing his daughter, Caleb trading his daughter to whoever could conquer a city (it turned out to be Caleb’s brother), Noah cursing his grandson Canaan to a lifetime of slavery for his father seeing Noah naked, and on it goes.
  4. Ivan the Terrible. He makes Constantine and Peter look meek, as rather than have officials take care of the deed, he committed filicide by hand, brutally striking his son’s head with a staff. The reason for this fight? Ivan physically attacked his daughter-in-law for wearing immodest clothing, and Ivan’s son tried to protect her. This scene is captured in a famous painting.
  5. Marvin Gay Sr.  Marvin Gay Jr. always had a difficult relationship with his father, and he was thrown out of the house on several occasions. Alberta Gay, Marvin Jr’s mother, said, “My husband never wanted Marvin, and he never liked him. He used to say that he didn’t think he was really his child. I told him that was nonsense. He knew Marvin was his. But for some reason he didn’t love Marvin and, what worse, he didn’t want me to love Marvin either. Marvin wasn’t very old before he understood that.” As he rose in fame and wealth Marvin Jr. added an ‘e’ to his last name to distance himself from his father. They were estranged for many years, but eventually Gaye tried to reconcile with his father, presenting gifts. In one last argument things got out of hand and Marvin Sr. shot Marvin Jr. twice, killing him.

These are extreme cases and it’s a relief in some ways to realize that as bad as your parents might have been, they weren’t anywhere near as bad as these ones were to their children, as you’re still alive to read this (and I’m still alive to write it).


I started with other people’s lists but did my own research to confirm/deny facts and pick the 5 worst examples.

11 Responses to “The 5 Worst Fathers Of All Time”

    1. Scott

      Good question. I’ve been doing some research on this too. It seems most web searches for “worst father” return many lists of real people, but searches for “best father” return mostly lists of fictional characters (TV/Movies). More work required.

      1. evan

        Fwiw, Richard Feynman speaks highly of his father, who sounds instrumental in helping his son become *ahem* the fine man he became. Ferryman’s description of his father may help you think qualities of good fathering. Maybe not all time best list, but then why not? Guess you’re done with your book though :)

  1. Dave

    Hey Scott–great article. Just FYI, that link about Lot’s actions is way broken above. Thought you’d want to know.

  2. Michael Nitabach

    Don’t forget Abraham, who was about to kill his son Isaac.

  3. Nancy

    Thomas More and Charles Darwin were said to be good (famous) fathers.

    Marvin Gaye’s brother wrote in his book that Marvin’s last words were to the effect he provoked his father to shoot him, since he couldn’t do it himself. Of course that doesn’t make his father a good dad; just an interesting fact.

    1. Scott

      The Gaye story is very complicated – I haven’t read the biographies but even the articles I’ve seen suggest Gaye had plenty of his own problems, including drug and sex addiction. Probably not an easy person to be around.

  4. murali

    You could look up the indian English movie – Gandhi My Father. Gandhi had a troubled relationship with one of his sons. Harilal’s despice for his father is well documented. Gandhi’s other sons turned out good, not apparent how much of them hated their father’s methods.

  5. Joel Robinsons

    I’m going to be a father in 5 months.I always fear I might not be a good father, but I’m sure I won’t be the worst like these fathers. I hope I could be good.


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